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Vancouver Riots

I’ve been thinking about the Vancouver Riots all day, today. My friends have been twittering about it and one of my friends, Sarah Edmondson, found out that her car was one of the vehicles to get completely destroyed in the riots.

I used to live in Vancouver. To be honest, it was one of the most amazing, beautiful, and friendly cities I have ever lived in. My experience there was that people were busy going about their day-to-day lives and that they supported peace and neutrality for the most part. They believe in helping their fellow man… most of them. So when I started to get accounts last night of the riot, it shocked me. I read that there was a riot in 1994 as well, and so it’s not surprising. I’d been inundated with tweets for the weeks leading up to the Stanley cup by actress Katie Sackoff tweeting “#GOBRUINS” twelve times a day, so the fact that this was a big big event also didn’t elude me.

What did elude me at first however, was the consideration that there is something deep deep down inside of people in our world that would cause them to use a situation such as this to justify their feelings of insecurity and choose to destroy items of that takes much effort to produce. I mean think about all of the effort that goes into the cars, and all of the other items that were destroyed last night… It’s not just Sarah’s efforts, but it’s that of the people who employ her, and the people who employ them. THEN, it’s the people who made the car, and the people who run the company to make the car. THEN it’s the people who buy the products that support the people who make the car. Think, for a moment, of the efforts of the people who spent countless hours paving that beautiful parkade, where her car was parked. Think of all of the people who spent their hard earned efforts in building the area around the parkade. Think, more, on the people who supported the rioters only hours to minutes before the riots began; the hard work that went into building up the beautiful city of Vancouver, to support the wonderfully kind citizens of that city.

And then… there’s just that one moment… the moment where something big happened– something big and not prideful for some. There’s the people who would dare to pick up an object and destroy it by destroying another object. What goes on inside for this person to be the person to start this? More and more people join in because they’re scared, it’s fun, they’re too drunk, they need to record it, get it on camera, smile and say cheese, etc. Whatever the excuse is, what goes on for a person to destroy something that they didn’t earn, when ordinarily that same person would think twice about opening that same car door if they notice the light is left on if this were any other day.

What goes on for an individual who stands there and watches it happen, and doesn’t say anything. That person is, after all, making a choice to be part of this action by choosing no action.

I watched a YouTube video of a “Brave Vancouver Citizen” who stands up to a group of people who are taking their joys out on someone else’s efforts. This person stops the smashing, at least momentarily, and the city is that much better for this action.

What will it take for more brave citizens like this person to take a stand and say “This is OUR city. What are you DOING?”

I am seeking to work towards a better humanity. A humanity that will stand to expose an injustice and bring it to light and inspire others to choose their path; that of supporting destruction or that of supporting humanity and creation. Join me?

April Breakfast Day

Granny!

Granny!

Every person has their own personal holiday or series of holidays throughout the year, more than what’s on the calendar. They are either cause for celebration or cause for the quiet, solemn, “turn-all-the-lights-off-have-a-bottle-of-wine-and-go-to-bed-till-this-day-is-over” and for the most part, our life flashes as we celebrate our private holidays.

 

April 1st is one of those private holidays for me, only I am rarely private about it. Why? Because the day is important to me. I call it “Breakfast Day” and it is a day for me to focus on one of the most amazing women that I have had the honor and privileged to spend a large part of my life with; she is a person who helped shape me to be who I am.

My granny, Doris Lee Chapman, was a woman of love, compassion, and strength. She raised me from the age of infancy to 9 years old and she will remain my hero, for years to come… although my mother, my best friend, is rising up to meet her status.

Granny was the kind of woman who always had her doors open. Even when she was sick or down, she’d keep her lights on for people to come over. It was kind of hard not to, with her, I understand… what with her having 16 children and all. I mean, that’s exponential growth in future generations! Holy Moly! Anyway, one of her favorite traditions to do was to cook a full on breakfast for anyone when they spent the night with her. We’d get to spend time with her and then wake up in the morning to the most delish spread of breakfast foods that I’d swear she had a secret staff that only came out to help her cook and then went back into hiding. Eggs, toast, biscuits, bacon, pancakes, syrup, juice, milk, and the list goes on. It was always such a wonderful experience! It’s where I learned how to sop up the yolk with my toast and get that delicious flavor in my mouth (that of course, now I’ve grown to dislike over time and I get my eggs scrambled).

So, I’m not really the kind of person to cook breakfast every day. I’m not really the kind of person to cook at all, to be honest. But I’m the kind of person who honors people as often as I can, and on this day… the day that marks the expiration of my beloved hero’s own breakfast traditions, I have chosen to celebrate her life and to eat breakfast with all who will come and enjoy.

Of course it doesn’t always work out for me the way I want it. Ideally, I’d like to be the cook and have people come over around 9 or so and eat the food. So if that isn’t possible, then I sometimes go to IHOP or Denny’s with a group of people. Tonight, I’m inviting a few of my friends over to enjoy breakfast, and I really encourage any of my friends or readers out there to eat some eggs in honor of my granny too. If you don’t know what she’s like, think of the best traits you see in me and you’ve pretty much got her as well.

I’ll probably have a glass of wine too, in celebration and love for her and the humanity that she instilled in me. So if you don’t like breakfast, raise a glass with me too.

For 10 years now, this day has never been a joke for me. It’s probably one of the most serious and loving experiences I create for myself all year. So! Off for the day. I am going to make my “Breakfast Day” plans, get my MacBook Pro fixed once and for-all hopefully, and get back to work! Granny was a hard worker in life and that is what I want to be too.

Good day, my friends!

Love,
Tabby

In Loving Memory for Doris Lee “Granny” Chapman.

A cappella time

I had a great time at a cappella meeting tonight and I am really excited to move forward. I am hoping to set up some really valuable lessons each week for people who are interested in learning to speak better and more confidently.

This week I am going to focus more on my interval from g to b flat because for some reason today I was just crazy off!

One cool thing I am hoping to do is to get a pack of tuning forks and swap them around the group each week and task each person to guess the pitch and check it against the tuning fork thirty times during the week. It’s a fun way to teach yourself perfect pitch!